Say what you like, honestly and once
There's nothing wrong with preferring women with big breasts. Preferences are normal, and pretending you don't have one just creates awkward moments later. The skill is in how you say it. Be open about what draws you, then show her there's a person behind it.
On a general dating app, lead with who you are and let the preference come up naturally. On a site built around the preference, like Boob Dating, everyone already knows what it's for, so you can skip the explanation and spend your first messages on the things that actually decide whether you click.
Meet women who want to be met
The easiest way to date a woman who likes being admired for her figure is to go where that's welcome. Boob Dating is free to join, and members choose to be there. You don't have to guess who is open to it, and you won't spend weeks explaining your type to someone who isn't interested.
- Fill in your profile properly. A clear photo, a few honest lines about yourself, and what you're looking for. A profile with nothing on it gets ignored.
- Be specific about what you enjoy, not only what you look for. Interests are what give someone something to reply to.
- Keep early conversations on the site. If someone pushes you to move to another app straight away, be careful.
Make your first message about her
The first message is where most men lose the conversation. Mention something from her profile and ask one easy question. Keep it short, and keep your opening free of anything about her chest.
"Your profile says you love hiking. Where's the best trail you've done?"
"Your last photo looks like a great holiday. Where was it?"
Compliments that land
Specific compliments about her smile, her humor or her style usually go down better in the first few messages than comments about her body. Once there's some rapport, a respectful compliment about her figure can be welcome, especially if she has made it part of her profile. Read how she responds, and if she changes the subject, drop it.
What many women with big breasts have dealt with
Many women with large breasts say they are used to being stared at, commented on by strangers, or treated as if their body is public property. You don't need to make a speech about it. You just need to avoid adding to it.
- Look at her face when she talks. It sounds basic, and it matters.
- Treat her as a person with interests, not a type. If everything you say could be said to any woman with the same figure, she'll notice.
- Let her lead on how much she wants to talk about it. Some women enjoy the attention and some are tired of it.
On the date: consent and pace
Meet somewhere public the first time, and let her set the pace. Ask before you touch her, accept a "no" without sulking, and never push. Respect works the same way for everyone: if she feels safe with you, she's far more likely to want to see you again.
Things that end the conversation
- Opening with a comment on her chest, or asking her size
- Sending explicit photos she didn't ask for
- Pressuring her to meet, or to move to another app
- Making every sentence about her body
- Ignoring a "no", or arguing with it
Questions men ask
Is it okay to prefer women with big breasts?
Yes. Preferences are normal. What matters is how you treat the person in front of you, not what you're attracted to.
How do I start a conversation with a woman with big breasts?
The same way you would with anyone: mention something from her profile and ask a simple question. Leave her body out of your first message.
Can I ask her bra size?
Not early on. If she wants you to know, she'll tell you, and asking too soon makes you look like you're collecting details rather than getting to know her.
Where can I meet women who like being admired for their figure?
On a site built for it. Boob Dating is free to join, and the women there signed up knowing what the site is for. Read more about why people choose boob dating sites.